My silly-lily friend

That day I saw this one friend punya status in the FB that stated “ ko ingat GF ko pakai tudung tu baik sangat ke? Tak ramai jantan, lancau” (you think that t]your GF who are wearing hijab is a good girl? You are wrong dude) something like that la. 

So from there I was thinking. Who the hell are we to judge another human being? And this status was produced by a person who is muslimah and not wearing a hijab. A question mark was risen again, why are you doing this. Are you trying to justify that wearing a hijab as a muslimah does not guarantee you to be a good person? Just imagine if your status are being read by those who is none muslim? You are bringing your religion down to the drain along with you la dude. 

I wanted to say something to the comment box but seems like it is not right at that time as she is one of my close friend’s gf. I don’t want to jeopardize my relationship with him. I must say from the way she stated on her wall does indicated the hatred towards the girl and also need to console herself that not wearing a hijab as a muslimah is ok as long you have a good traits. 

There is a thing such as there is no force in islam but there is a law that stated that a muslimah have to cover her aurah in front of non mahram. I am not a perfect muslimah myself. But I am trying to be one as I love my hubby so much to drag him to hell with me in akhirat. So what I am trying to say here is, please do not bring down your religion down to the drain by producing bimbo-ish status on your wall.

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2012-the end is near...ngohohoh!!

Happy 2012 everyone!!!

It’s a new year and of course a new journey for us. Oh yeah im a married woman now, so my hormone is stabilized by the testosterone hormone that makes me less rage-gy like I always do when im still single. Hahah!! It is been almost two weeks since the solemnization and the world seems like a cotton candy now. I know there is long way to go, but the conclusion that I can make now are…Married Life Rocks!!! 

There a bunch of theory out there that suggesting this and that to make a marriage works. But from the way I see is, we have to get our foundation straight which is Trust and Respect to each other. This is the hardest thing to do because of the experience of being betrayed and the factor sekeliling which makes us a paranoid person like a person who watch 2012 and believe the world are going to end soon. This two fundamental thing is important to make anything works. Without this two, you can never find peace and hiduplah di dalam keadaan yang kurang selesa selamanye. That’s my yapping to start the year 2012. And the world are not going to end in 2012. Orang maya tak sempat nak update kalender die…sebab tamadun die dah ilang.

p/s: Tahun 2012 ni is a dragon year in chinese calender, good to have babies :p